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Great Deals (And A Coupon!) At My Favorite Online Health Food Store

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Good morning!  I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas.  We had a great day surrounded by family, and our son loved his kitchen and felt food.  We set it up in our dining room, and as I’m typing this he’s got an entire meal prepared and served at the dining room table.  And as predicted, our baby had all sorts of fun with the boxes and wrapping paper.  My parents brought over my new walker, and it works perfectly for dips, reverse push ups, and all sorts of leg/knee raises.  I love it!

Now that Christmas is over, a lot of us start thinking about the new year and what we hope to accomplish or change during it.  We don’t do resolutions per se, but we do set goals for ourselves and make plans for what we want to do in the coming year.  For us, 2012 will be all about our basement – we’re hoping to finish it entirely by the end of the year.  And of course we have our standard financial goals of maxxing out our IRAs, contributing to our SEP IRAs, and putting aside money to eventually pay off our mortgage.  One of the best things about automatic contributions to savings accounts, retirement accounts, college savings plans, etc., is that you don’t really have to think about them.  If you’ve been meaning to set up an automatic savings contribution, do it now so that you’ll be off to a great start in the new year.

If any of you have plans to eat better in 2012, you might want to take advantage of a special sale coupon valid until the end of the year at The Raw Food World.  This awesome online store is owned by Matt Monarch and Angela Stokes-Monarch.  They recently had a baby who was born at home in their tub – of course I loved that story!  I’ve been ordering stuff from their store for a while now, and it always arrives with samples of things like chia seeds or Supergreen powder, along with a photocopy of a handwritten note from Matt.

From now until the end of December, you can use the code HOLIDAY18 when you checkout at The Raw Food World online store, and you’ll get 17.5% off any size order (the coupon code works for everything in the store except appliances and exercise equipment, so they’re also offering another coupon – HOLIDAY12 – that you can use on some exercise equipment and some appliances.  Check out their store for more details).  It’s a pretty awesome deal, and I’m definitely going to be stocking up on some stuff this week.

In addition to the coupon, they have some awesome at-cost specials going on at the moment – I got an amazing deal on a bag of 1000 chlorella tablets last week.  And the best part?  Our three-year-old chomps on a chlorella tablet every morning with his breakfast and says he likes the taste!

I buy our chia seeds from them too, and we go through a lot of chia seeds around here.  Our Christmas morning breakfast was overnight oats/quinoa/chia in a mixture of almond milk and coconut milk eggnog (an amazing seasonal treat from the folks at So Delicious).  I had leftover quinoa in the fridge so I dumped it into a bowl with raw oats and a bunch of chia seeds.  Then I added the almond milk and a bit of the eggnog, stirred it around, and let it sit overnight in the fridge.  We had a great breakfast the next morning without any effort at all.  I make all sorts of chia puddings – they’re like magic!  I usually start with 1 part chia to 2 parts liquid and go from there, adding more liquid if it seems too thick.  I blend up nuts and fruit (cranberry chia pudding is a favorite around here) to change the flavor, and we always love a bowl of chocolate chip mint chia pudding during the summer when our mint plants are bursting with leaves.  Chia seeds are a great source of calcium, so if you’re looking for alternatives to dairy, these might be a perfect solution.

One of our new favorite foods – which we also found at The Raw Food World – is kelp noodles.  For about six months now, we’ve been eating very little wheat (or grains at all, other than oats and seeds like buckwheat and quinoa), and I’ve been searching for substitutes for pasta.  We used to eat a lot of whole wheat spaghetti, and I had replaced it with zucchini noodles (made with a spiralizer) in the summer when our zukes were in season, and spaghetti squash in the fall.  I thoroughly enjoy both of those options, but while my guys didn’t mind them, I don’t think they loved them either.  Then I found kelp noodles and my husband and son are coming back for seconds.  They are more expensive than spaghetti, but I’m able to stretch a single package into two meals for our family by adding tons of veggies.  That makes the cost of the noodles much more reasonable (and I love leftovers, since it means I get to skip cooking a meal).  Kelp noodles have almost no calories (6 calories per serving), but they provide calcium and a little iron too.  Their flavor is neutral, so they absorb the flavor of whatever you put on them.  Our favorite thing to do with them is sautee a ton of veggies (broccoli, onions, garlic, carrots, bell peppers) and some tempeh, and then make a variation on Gena’s awesome Asian sauce (I use less oil and more water, but you can tweak it however you like).  Then we mix the sauce, noodles, tempeh and veggies and have a fantastic dinner that comes together quickly and leaves us feeling satisfied but not overly full the way pasta sometimes does.

Anyway, if you’re looking for some inspiration and excellent deals on super-duper food to start off the new year, I highly recommend The Raw Food World.  Everything I’ve bought from them has been great, and they have a huge selection of products.  There’s a link at the top of their left sidebar for “at-cost specials” and they have all sorts of great deals there (like 1000 chlorella tabs or 1000 chlorella/spirulina tabs for $15.95, and those amazing kelp noodles are also in the at-cost specials list right now).  Or you can just browse around the site and know that you can save 17.5% on whatever you buy this week.  They really do have an amazing selection of stuff, which is especially helpful for people who don’t live near a health food supermarket.  In addition, they sell products in all sorts of sizes, so you can try a little of something new or purchase a bulk size if you already know it’s something you love (that would be an especially good idea this week, with the HOLIDAY18 coupon code).  Have fun, and here’s to a happy and healthy 2012!

 

 

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The Felt Food Project Is Complete

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Christmas is almost here, and I think I’m finally finished making felt food.   Here is the current food collection:

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I’ve already posted pictures and details about some of this stuff, but I’ve made quite a bit more since the last time I posted.

We now have a pizza that comes apart for lots of pizza-making fun.  The crust has a piece of cardboard sewn into it to make it rigid, and then the sauce, cheese, and toppings are all separate pieces so they can be taken apart and put back together any way he likes.  The pizza pan came from Goodwill.

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There’s also a banana that comes out of its peel.  I love this!

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For my first attempt at the banana, I used four elongated ovals, but it ended up looking more like a football than a banana (so I stitched some laces onto it and gave it to my boys).  For my second attempt (pictured – I’m very happy with how it turned out), I used just three pieces of white felt, and made them much longer and thinner than my original try.  It worked much better.  The peel is three pieces of yellow felt and three pieces of white felt (all the same size as the three pieces of white felt that make up the banana).  This probably took nearly two hours to make, including both attempts.  It’s one of the more complicated pieces I’ve made, but it turned out very cute.

In addition to the banana and the strawberries that I posted a while ago, I’ve made an assortment of other fruits and veggies.  A watermelon slice, celery sticks (two of them are stuffed with peanut butter), a cucumber slice, carrots and carrot slices, banana slices, several varieties of berries, spinach leaves, tomato slices, apple slices, a lemon slice, a broccoli floret, and some asparagus.  Some of these I came up with on my own, and a couple were inspired by other sites.  (asparagus, carrots).  I just found a tutorial for a broccoli floret that looks much easier than what I did, so I think I might have to add a few of those…

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I was browsing around on etsy looking for inspiration, and I found these adorable ice cream cones with removable ice cream and multiple flavors.  I had to make some.  So now we have an ice cream cone with four flavors of ice cream:  blueberry, spinach-mint (try it – it’s yummy!), vanilla, and raspberry. 

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I’ve made three eggs.  There are still a lot of spaces in that egg carton, but not a lot of days before Christmas.  So he’s probably going to get an egg carton with lots of empty spaces and three eggs in it.

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I found this adorable little Melissa & Doug muffin pan and oven mitt at Goodwill last week ($1.49 for the set) and couldn’t resist.  I made a banana muffin and a blueberry muffin to go with the cupcake that I made a while ago.  I may or may not get another muffin made to go in the fourth hole.  Our son has been using my muffin pans and filling the holes with blocks for about the last year (and then he sticks them in his “oven” which is the space under the coffee table).  So I’m thinking he’ll figure something out for that fourth hole if I don’t get another muffin made.

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A slice of bread and Swiss cheese were among the first things I made, but I’ve now finished the sandwich – it has a leaf (lettuce?  Too dark?  Let’s say it’s kale.  That would be perfectly normal in our house), a tomato slice, and cheese.

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And to round everything out, we have more felt dessert than we’d have in a whole year if it were real.  But it’s felt, so we can have as much as we want Smile In addition to the slices of pie I made when I first started this project, I’ve also made lots of cookies, a brownie, and a slice of mint chocolate cake.

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Cookies are easy and fun to make, so I made a bunch of them as Christmas tree ornaments for our nieces and several of my friends’ kids.

I’m pretty excited for our son to see all of this on Sunday morning.  And I’m proud of the fact that everything we’re giving him is secondhand or homemade.  The kitchen was a Craigslist find, and all of the pots, pans, dishes and utensils came from thrift stores.  And of course, I’ve made all of the food (and rescued some food containers from the recycle bin, like my husband’s half-n-half carton). 

In addition to the kitchen, we’ve got two other presents for our son, both from Goodwill.  I scored a large box of Lincoln Logs a few weeks ago, for three bucks.  They were in a generic brown cardboard box, but I happened to look inside and was thrilled to find them.  I had hours of fun playing with Lincoln Logs with my brother, and I think they’ll be perfect for our boys.  I also found a large box of Flexiwheels building blocks for $2.50.  They’re like Lego, but they can hook together lengthwise on hinges or be clicked together like Lego.    

This is the first Christmas that we’ve given our son presents, as it’s the first year that he’s really old enough to understand what’s going on.  We’re not giving our 8 month-old anything, although there are presents for him from Grandma and Grandpa.  He will be more than thrilled with the boxes and wrapping paper from his brother’s presents, and will likely spend Christmas morning snuggled up with us, clapping his hands and watching his brother.

I hope you all have a wonderful holiday weekend.  Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, Happy Solstice!  Remember to enjoy the simple things.

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A Walker As Exercise Equipment

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I’ve posted before about how much I love Bodyrock.tv and I’ve had several comments from readers saying that they’re also fans of the short, high-intensity workouts on that site.  I’ve been Bodyrocking for 8 months, and I’ve never felt stronger – I highly recommend it if you’re looking for a way to fit exercise into a busy life, and to shake up workout boredom – there’s no such thing with Bodyrock, since the workouts change every day.

One of the things I love about Bodyrock is the emphasis on bodyweight exercises – push ups, squats, lunges, etc.  Lots of exercises that you can do anywhere, anytime, without any equipment.  That said, they do use some equipment, including this dip stand.  I’ve seen it online for anywhere from $79 to $140.  I wasn’t going to spend anywhere near that amount of money for one, so I had been keeping an eye out on Craigslist for quite some time, but with no luck.

In the meantime, I’ve been improvising.  I use two kitchen chairs as my dip stand, and it works fairly well.  For reverse push ups, I put a broom handle across the seats and through the back rails of the chair.  That works ok, but the broom handle is only at the height of the chair seats, so my reverse push ups don’t go as high as they would on a dip stand.  The backs of the chairs work fine for dips and knee/leg raises, although I’m sure it’s putting some excess strain on the chairs and the sharp wooden edges on the chair backs dig into my palms if I forget to wrap them with a towel first.   All in all, my two chair method was working, but wasn’t ideal.  But there was no way I was going to spend $80+ on a dip stand.

Then I saw a comment from someone on the Bodyrock site talking about how he bought a walker at Goodwill and uses that as his dip stand.  Genius!  I can’t believe I hadn’t thought of that.  Look at this basic walker and see how structurally similar it is to the dip stand.  And although I hadn’t been able to find a used dip stand, used walkers are pretty easy to come by.  My parents are out thrift store shopping today, and they just found me a nice sturdy walker (and no wheels or seat or anything that would interfere with using it as a dip stand) for $13.  I’m so excited to do my workouts with my new equipment!

I love outside-the-box solutions.  Many thanks to the person who originally shared this idea.  I thought I’d pass on the favor and share it again here for frugal folks who like bodyweight exercises.  And as an extra bonus, you get to repurpose something used instead of buying something new – better for your wallet and better for our world.

Cheers, and happy dipping!

 

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Changing Our Mortgage Payoff Strategy

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Ever since we bought our first house in 2003, we’ve always paid extra on our mortgage.  Even in the early days of being self employed when we had barely any money, we always tried to put at least a little extra money towards the mortgage principal each month – even if it was only ten dollars.  When we bought our current house, we opted for a 15 year mortgage, and set a goal of paying it off in seven years.  So far, so good.  We’ve been here 2.5 years and have paid off a little more than five years on the loan.  Our current amortization table shows the house being paid off 9.75 years from now if we stop making additional payments and just pay the monthly bill as scheduled.

Our strategy with paying off the mortgage has always been pretty straightforward.  We just add whatever we can each month to the payment we make to our loan company, with instructions to apply the additional money to the principal balance.  That has always worked well, and in the last 2.5 years, it’s put us 33 months ahead on our mortgage.  Seeing the house become more and more ours instead of the bank’s definitely makes all of our frugal habits worth the effort.

But we’re changing our strategy a bit.  The goal is still to pay off the house within the next four or five years.  But instead of sending the extra payments directly to the mortgage company each month, we’re putting them into a municipal bond fund at Vanguard instead.  We’ve had the fund for nearly two years, and have always considered it an emergency fund.  Knock on wood, we’ve never needed to take any money out of it.  Starting this month, we increased our monthly automatic contribution to that fund to be roughly equal to what we had been paying in additional mortgage principal.  And we’ve scheduled our mortgage payment to be just the regular amount due with no additional principal payment.

Once the balance in the bond fund equals the outstanding balance on the mortgage, we can pay off the loan in one lump sum.  We’ll probably actually wait until we have a bit more in the bond fund, in order to still have an emergency fund in place when we pay off the loan.  But you get the idea.

The interest rate on our loan is 4.625% (and we take the standard deduction on our taxes, so we don’t get a tax break for our mortgage interest).  The bond fund is currently paying roughly 3.5% in dividends and had been very consistent over the two years we’ve had it (the money we earn in the account is exempt from federal taxes since it’s a municipal bond fund.  We do pay state taxes on most of it – except for the bonds that are issued in our state – but that doesn’t amount to much).  The one drawback to the bond fund is that it’s not FDIC insured, but we’re ok with that.  It’s diversified across municipalities all over the country, and we feel very comfortable with it.  As far as we’re concerned, the 1% difference in rates between the mortgage and the bond fund is more than justified by the fact that if we put the money into the bond fund, we can still access it in an emergency, even though it’s earmarked for paying off the mortgage.  Whereas if we just send it straight to the mortgage company, it can’t be used for anything else.

If everything continues to go great, there will be no (or very little) change in the eventual outcome.  We’ll pay slightly more in interest on our mortgage over the next few years, since the principal balance won’t be dropping as fast as it was when we were paying additional money each month.  But the dividends we’re earning in our bond fund will increase faster than they were in the past.  And a few years down the road, we’ll be able to just pay off the mortgage in one big chunk.

But what if everything doesn’t continue to go great?  What if our income drops significantly?  What if one of us gets sick or disabled? (we do have disability insurance and an HSA, but a little extra cushion can’t hurt).  We’ve been in the health insurance industry for nearly a decade, but there’s really no way to know what the industry will look like five years from now, between reform laws, elections, court decisions, etc.

Those what-if scenarios were the deciding factor for us.  We’ve proven to ourselves that we’re very disciplined when it comes to money.  The contributions to the bond fund are already set up to be automatically drafted each month, we we know we’re never going to just pull the money out to go on vacation or buy a boat.  We’ll still consider it off-limits, just as it would actually be if we had sent it to the mortgage company each month.  But if we were to truly end up between a rock and a hard place, we would be able to use the money for something else.  Like making mortgage payments each month if we were to be without an income, for example.

We’ll see how it goes.  Here’s hoping we don’t run into any of our what-if scenarios, and the balance in the bond fund eventually meets up with the principal balance on the mortgage.  But it will also be a good feeling to know that we’re better prepared to take on financial challenges if they were to happen.

If you’re paying off your mortgage faster than scheduled, are you doing it directly through the mortgage company, or are you stashing the extra payments in another account and waiting until you can make a lump sum payoff someday?

 

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The Felt Food Project

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For the past few weeks, I’ve been tinkering with felt food for at least a few minutes every day.  I’ve had a few projects (like a banana with a removable peel – picture coming soon) that took over an hour to make, but most of the items have come together much faster than that.  Our son’s play kitchen is going to be fully stocked by Christmas morning, and I’m having so much fun making the food for him.  I even made a felt pizza for one of his friends, and a bunch of felt cookie tree ornaments for friends and family.  My felt pizza inspiration came from this site, although I made all of the toppings double layer to make them a bit more durable and easier to handle.  For green pepper rings, I tried several methods and ended up liking this one the best.  They come together in about five minutes and look really cute.  Our son was watching me make the pizza for his friend (he has no idea that I’m making another one for him) and he liked to line up the pepper rings as if they’re a pepper and then “slice” them apart using a butter knife.  The 3-D structure of this pepper ring style makes it more realistic for that sort of play.

So now for some pictures of what I’ve been up to. 

An ice cream cone, inspired by this site:

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A plate of pancakes that I thought of after finding a huge chunk of tan felt at a thrift store for a dollar.  I only had a few minutes to sew that day, and wanted something that would come together fast.  I stuffed them with some leftover felt scraps to give them a bit of dimension, although I’ve found that understuffing is much better than overstuffing with felt food.

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The plate was 50 cents at a thrift store.  The strawberries were inspired by this tutorial and are actually pretty quick and easy to make.  They’re just a half circle of red felt sewn into a cone shape, stuffed, and gathered at the top using a running stitch.  Then you add little yellow stitches for seeds and sew a leaf-shaped piece of green felt on top. 

A few days ago I found this site and loved all the pictures of food she’s made.  The tea bags were so cute I had to whip some up – they literally take about three minutes, although I spent about another three minutes embroidering the word “Tea” on the first one I made:

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I also really liked her “infinity bread.”  I had been thinking of making tortillas, but I loved the idea of wraps that would hold their shape when you roll or fold them.  She said she was keeping her trick a secret, but just seeing the finished product got me thinking about how I could make a tortilla that would hold it’s shape when you bend it.  I looked in my craft supplies and found a wad of craft wire that had come in a box of thrift store embroidery floss.  It was pretty thin, so I twisted two lengths of it together to make a thicker strand.  I cut two circles out of felt using a medium size plate as a template.  Then I sewed them together with a seam that was about an inch in from the edge.  Next, I bent the ends of the craft wire (don’t want it poking through the fabric) and then tucked it in next to the seam I had made, so that it was hidden inside the one-inch flap at the edge of the tortilla.  Then, holding the craft wire in place as I sewed, I made another seam around the edge of the tortilla, just on the outside of the craft wire.  When I was finished, the craft wire was encased in the felt, with a seam on each side.  All that was left to do was trim off the excess felt to even up the edges, and viola!  A tortilla that holds its shape!

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You can roll it up with a bunch of veggies inside (still have to make those…) and it will stay rolled.  Very cool.

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I think the picture makes it pretty easy to understand how I did it.  You can see the two seams – the craft wire is in between them.  This project took about 15 minutes.  You probably have some flexible wire lying around somewhere (that junk bucket in the garage, maybe?).  You want it to be pretty flexible – I think a coat hanger would be too stiff, for example – so that little hands can bend and roll it. 

I have lots more food and ideas that I’ll share with you over the next few days.  And as always, I’d love to hear about your creative Christmas gift ideas – things you’re making or doing or re-purposing for other people, instead of wading through crowds at the mall. 

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3 Day 90% Off Sale To Help You Launch Or Grow Your Online Business

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A few months ago, I wrote a post about how we started our business and what we’ve learned over nearly a decade of self-employment.  I wrote the post in response to numerous questions from readers over the years, and I know that self-employment – especially businesses that allow you to work from home (or wherever you choose) – appeals to a lot of my readers.  Many of you are parents looking for a way to be with your children and also contribute to the family finances, and a lot of you are just looking for a way to increase your income above what you earn from your regular job.

With all of that in mind, I was excited to hear about the latest 72 hour e-book/course sale that Baker and Karol put together.  This time, it’s all about starting or growing an online business, or transitioning an offline business to the internet.  There are two packages available, both at roughly 90% off the retail price you’d pay if you bought each item individually.  If you have an interest in starting your own business, starting an online side business in your spare time, or expanding your existing small business, these packages would be an awesome resource.  But as with anything you spend your money on, don’t just buy them on a whim.  Even though the package deal is a huge discount over buying the individual books, it’s only a value if you’re going to actually take the time to read them and implement what you learn.  Don’t let them turn into e-books that are gathering virtual dust!

The Business Launcher Package and the Business Amplifier Package are only available until Thursday, December 1, at noon eastern time.

Here’s what you get in the Business Launcher Package:  13 e-books/courses that retail individually for $1033, on sale for three days for $97 total.

  • True Strengths & The Metrics of Ease by Danielle LaPorte
  • BlogcastFM Premium Membership by Srini Rao
  • How To Email Important People by James Clear
  • LinkedIn And Webinar Ebook Package by Lewis Howes
  • Twixplode by Sean Malarkey
  • Master Your List by David Risley
  • Make More Progress by Chris Garrett
  • Location Rebel Guide to SEO by Sean Ogle
  • Niche Finding Bible +JetSetLife Audio Modules by Rob and Kim Murgatroyd
  • The Meaningful Business Book by Shane Ketterman
  • Think Outside The Cubicle by Scott Young
  • Guerrilla Influence Formula by Tyler Tervooren
  • Traffic And Trust by Nick Reese
If you’ve been toying with the idea of starting an online business, growing a blog into a business, or just spending some of your spare time to create a side business, this package can take you a long way.  And for three days, you can buy all 13 e-books for $97.
For any of you who already have a small business (or if you have really big goals for your not-yet-created business!), the Business Amplifier Package might be an excellent tool.  It’s perfect for people who want to start adding employees, grow an existing business, or move an offline business online.  It’s 25 e-books/courses that normally retail for $4,344 if you buy them individually.  But for three days only, you can get the whole thing for $497.  You get the 13 e-books that are included in the Business Launcher Package, and you also get 12 more:
  • Empire Building Kit by Chris Guillebeau
  • Beat The Business Slump by Charlie Gilkey
  • No Regrets Career Academy – Self Study by Jen Gresham
  • Trailblazer Home Study Course by Jonathan Mead
  • Blog Master’s Club by David Risley
  • Pinnacle Club 3 Month Membership by Erica Douglass
  • Traffic School Lite by Corbett Barr
  • Your Backstage Pass To Twitter by Laura Roeder
  • Product Pro System – Module 1 by Greg Rollett
  • Story Telling 101 by Johnny B. Truant
  • Cash + Clients by Ashley Ambirge
  • Partnership Playbook by Pam Slim and Desiree Adaway
The products in both packages are not simple e-books.  Most of the ones in the Business Launcher Package retail for around $100 each, and the additional courses in the Business Amplifier Package retail for around $200 and up… for each course.  If you’re serious about starting or growing an online business, these courses will definitely guide you on your way.  But again, they’re not going to be something that you can sit down and breeze through in an evening.  If it were easy to make a living with your own online business, everybody would be doing it.  But if you’re committed to the idea of working for yourself online and just don’t know where to begin or where to go next, one of these packages might be just what you’re looking for.

I’m obviously a huge fan of working from home and working online.  Our business has allowed us tremendous freedom in terms of how we structure our life and our ability to be with our boys all day, every day.  The internet has removed a lot of the barriers that used to exist in terms of starting a small business.  So if there was ever a time to act on your dream of having your own business – or even just a side job that brings in a little extra income or allows you to create a product that means a lot to you –  now’s the time.  Best of luck, and I hope this 72 hour sale is helpful on your business-building journey!

As an added bonus, up to $25 (depending on which package is purchased) from each sale will go to WASI – Women of the Americas Sustainability Initiative – to train international women leaders in sustainable building techniques.

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More Felt Food!

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I think I might be on my way to needing a 12 step program for felt food addiction.  I can’t stop making food!  It’s so much fun, and the internet is overflowing with awesome ideas.  Here’s the stuff I’ve made over the last few days.

Bread.

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With a piece of Swiss cheese.

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Apple pie (inspired by this post but made without a pattern)

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Cherry cheesecake.

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Cherry pie (my favorite!)

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Mushrooms (more veggies coming soon for a salad bowl… I didn’t have any veggie-colored felt until today).  My mushroom inspiration came from here.

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And a cupcake.

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I picked up a bunch of felt this evening so I have lots of color options now.  If you look at the stuff I’ve made so far, it’s mostly pink, brown, tan, and white.  That’s pretty much what I had in my felt stash.  But now I have lots of greens, reds, oranges and plenty of other shades for whatever foods come to mind. 

Hope you’ve all had a great weekend.  We avoided the shopping shenanigans that goes on after Thanksgiving and spent the weekend hanging out with family, working on our basement, and – of course! – making felt food.  I haven’t been very crafty for the past few years, so I think I’m making up for lost time.  But I promise to write about something other than felt food soon!

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Homemade (and secondhand) Christmas

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Several of our son’s friends have play kitchens, and for about the last year those have been the toys our little guy enjoys the most when we play at other kids’ houses.  In our own house, he uses all of my pots and pans and utensils and then pretends that his blocks are muffins, pancakes, salad, tea, smoothies, etc.  He loves to help me cook, and it’s a common theme when he’s playing too.

We’ve mostly skipped Christmas presents for the last several years.  My husband and I don’t care one way or the other, and even though this will be our fourth Christmas as parents, our son hasn’t been old enough to know what all the fuss is about.  We involved him last year in our trip to the grocery store to pick out food for the food bank, and he went with us when we took a food basket to a WWII veteran we’ve known for years.  But we’ve never gotten a Christmas gift for our son before.

This year, we decided that in addition to our food donations we’d also get our son a Christmas present.  And a play kitchen seemed the obvious choice, since he’s mentioned numerous times that he’d like one and he has so much fun playing with them when we visit his friends.

So I started searching on Craigslist.  I found several plastic kitchens, and a few really expensive wooden ones.  Then yesterday this charming little wooden kitchen was listed for $45:

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Other than the pretty shade of pink, it was perfect.  So I brought it home and went about making it a little less princess-like.  I will admit that the little girl in me – who spent the first half of the 80s shunning the 63 non-pink crayons in the box – sighed a bit when the first stroke of white primer went on over the pink oven door.  (Early 80s?  Who am I kidding?  I painted my bedroom furniture this exact shade of pink when I was in high school). 

Anyway.  This is what the kitchen looks like now:

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But wait, the fun is just beginning.  What do you need to go with a play kitchen?  Play food, of course.  I browsed around online and saw lots of cheap plastic versions, and lots of expensive wooden and fabric versions.  And then I figured I might as well try making my own.  I had lots of felt and embroidery floss in my craft supplies, and I sat down to experiment a bit last night after we got the boys to sleep.  I spent a little over an hour and this is what I have so far:

Cookies!

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and eggs!

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The baking dish and the little blue frying pan were thrift store finds.  After I picked up the kitchen, I spent $13 at the thrift store getting all sorts of kitchens stuff to go with it.  Couldn’t resist that cute little blue frying pan!

I’m so excited to make more felt food.  It’s all sorts of fun, and really doesn’t take much in the way of time or talent or money.  I have plans to make stuff to put together into a sandwich, veggies for a salad bowl, and a pizza.  The cookies and eggs only took about 15 minutes each to make, so I can sneak in at least one more little piece of food each night after our son’s in bed.  More pictures coming soon, I promise!

The only other Christmas present we’re doing this year (other than donations of food and money for charities) is my annual scrapbook for my mother in law, which is already finished.

Any of you going with second-hand and/or homemade Christmas presents this year?  I’d love to hear about your ideas.  And if any of you have experience with making stuff for a play kitchen, I’d especially love to hear from you!

Happy Thanksgiving!

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Our Frugal Home Version Of A Montessori-Style Preschool

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Over the last few months, several of our son’s friends have enrolled in Montessori-style preschool and daycare centers.  The parents have had nothing but good things to say about the switch, and my curiosity was piqued.  Our boys are home with us all day, and we have no plans to change that.  But I was wondering if there was more that we should be providing our three year old in terms of the environment where he spends most of his time.

The Wikipedia page about Montessori Education pretty much sums up most of what I’ve read about the concept, and matches closely with what my friends have described about their kids’ preschools.

The main difference between being at home with us all day and being in a daycare or preschool setting is that our sons aren’t interacting with other kids all day.  So we make an effort to get them out and about in social settings quite frequently.  This includes story time at the library, visits to friends’ houses, having friends over here, and impromptu trips to the park during times when we know there are likely to be other kids there.

But in terms of the environment we provide for our boys at home, we’ve always felt that it was pretty good, and now that I’m reading more about the Montessori style of learning, I feel even better about it.

We’ve spent very little money on the stuff we have, and our days are very laid-back and relaxed thanks to our refusal to over-schedule our family’s time.  Here’s what works for us as far as the environment we provide for our three-year-old.

First, and probably most importantly, we don’t own a TV.  Definitely one of the better decisions we’ve made as parents.

Our son’s toys are mostly things that require constant interaction and creative input from him.  Here’s what he plays with the most:

  • A set of wooden railroad tracks and lots of trains to go on it, along with lots of cars and trucks that he includes in his train/vehicle play.  We got the train set on Craigslist and the cars/trucks came from Goodwill.
  • The box of 2×4 offcuts, which he’s been playing with every day for weeks now.  He makes something new with them every day, and incorporates a lot of his other toys into whatever he builds.
  • A large farm that includes a dollhouse-style barn, lots of fence, and numerous farm animals.  We got it at a garage sale for $10, and have added a few more animals from Goodwill.
  • A large box of regular wooden blocks.  Some used to belong to my husband when he was little (my MIL saves everything…) and some came from Goodwill.  They are all shapes and colors and sizes, and include pieces from several different sets of blocks.
  • A wooden castle that my parents made with our son’s help.  He likes to build train tracks that connect the castle to the farm and then invent elaborate stories about who is going where and what they are doing.
  • Lots of little plastic and wooden people/dinosaurs/animals, etc.  These have come from a variety of places (mostly Goodwill and gifts) and he loves to involve them in whatever building he’s currently working on.  At the moment, he’s building train tracks and recreating the children’s book “Dinotrain” using his little plastic dinosaurs as props.
  • All sorts of stuff from the kitchen.  Pots, pans, cookie sheets, cooling racks, spatulas, spoons, measuring cups…
  • The sink.  He likes to push a chair up to the sink and have all sorts of fun.  A large cooking pot in the sink makes a great swimming pool for his plastic ducks and fish, and he also likes to use measuring cups to pour water into various other containers that he finds.
  • His sandbox.  When the weather is nice, he’s out there playing in it every day.  My husband built it out of 2×12 lumber and we filled it with sand from the local landscape center.  If space is tight, a little plastic swimming pool filled with sand works well.  Don’t worry about sand getting in their shoes or on the floor.  That’s why we have brooms and vacuums.  Kids grow up fast, and before you know it, they won’t be interested in a sandbox anymore.  Let them love it while they’re little.

That’s the list that comes to mind off the top of my head.  He plays all day long, using his imagination, building stuff and creating stories to go with what he makes.  He loves to show us the stuff he’s made, and often asks us to come and play with him.  But he’s never bored and he’s almost never confined by structure we’re imposing.  We provide toys that require a lot of creative input from him, and he does the rest.

We do require that all of the toys be cleaned up at the end of the day.  For a long time, that was a challenge, as he wanted no part of it and had to be coaxed and prodded to clean up his messes.  But recently he’s started cleaning up without being prompted and last night he said to me “I don’t need you anymore when I make a mess, because I’m able to clean it up myself.”  Music to a mama’s ears!  We usually all pitch in and clean it up together each evening (it only takes a few minutes because everything just goes into bins – blocks in one, trains in another, farm stuff in another…) but it’s great to see him doing his share.  Cleaning up and meal times are the only real “structured” times that we have during the day when he has to be doing a specific activity that we’ve laid out for him.  The rest of the time, he’s playing and creating his own structure.  We read lots of books, but there’s no specific time or schedule for this – we just fit it in around everything else.  We talk constantly about the stuff he’s doing and the things he’s creating with his toys, and we do our best to answer all of his questions throughout the day.  We don’t have structured “educational” activities, but our son knows his alphabet, numbers, colors, shapes etc. and is starting to be really interested in reading and understanding how letters come together to make words.  He comes to me throughout the day and says things like “house starts with H!”  We’re confident that his academic skills are fine, despite not being in a structured preschool environment.

I did some searching around to see what other parents have done if they wanted to set up a Montessori style preschool environment in their homes.  Some have pictures of beautifully-arranged preschool toys that are all made of wood and look just like the toys you find in a Montessori preschool.  And some take the concept very seriously, following the “rules” of the Montessori environment quite closely.

Our living room doesn’t look like what you might picture when you think of a traditional Montessori preschool.  But on closer inspection (especially if you watch our son play for a few hours), it’s obvious that the specific toys aren’t really the issue.  As long as you have toys that invite discovery and creative play, and little or no TV time, you’re probably on the right track.  You don’t have to spend a fortune on fancy toys and learning tools for your kids.  Limit their screen time and provide them with toys (which can be free or nearly free thanks to thrift stores and Craigslist and the great outdoors) that lend themselves to creative, imaginative play and problem solving.  Let them get wet and dirty.  Don’t worry about drilling them on the ABCs and 123s.  Instead, let them help you bake a batch of muffins and count aloud as they add scoops of oats and raisins.  Keep life simple, let your kids be involved in the things you do on a day-to-day basis, and encourage their creativity and imagination.  Good things will happen – without a lot of money or stress.

I’ve written this post from the perspective of a stay-at-home parent, but I think that the basics can apply to any family that’s looking for inexpensive, simple ways to provide a nurturing environment for their children during whatever time the kids are at home.  I hope it helps!

The Minimalist Mom’s Guide To Baby’s First Year

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For quite a while now, I’ve enjoyed The Minimalist Mom’s blog posts.  Her straightforward approach to keeping life simple and raising her son really resonates with me, and I often find myself nodding my head in agreement when I read her blog posts.  No birthday presents for a one- or two-year old?  Same here!  The first time we got a birthday present for our son was this year, for this third birthday.  He and my husband drove to a nearby town to pay $20 for a bike we found on Craigslist.  Then my husband spent the afternoon fixing up the bike and we let our son start riding it around that day – a few days before his actual birthday.  We try to make every day great rather than focus our energies on birthdays and holidays, and we’re also fully on board with the idea that very small children really don’t need much in the way of toys.

I didn’t come upon the idea of minimalism and having less stuff until about a year and a half ago.  But I’ve been frugal my whole life and that quality went a long way towards keeping our baby clutter to a minimum and sharply limiting the amount of money we spent on baby stuff.  Nearly everything we have for our boys is hand-me-downs from friends and stuff we got at thrift stores and on Craigslist.  Now that our baby is starting to outgrow stuff, we’re able to pass it on to other friends or list it for free on Craigslist without worrying about how much we spent on it – because we didn’t spend much.

We prefer to keep things very simple when it comes to our boys, and to life in general.  We know that we don’t need to spend much money or have new things in order to be happy.  We let our son pick out toys at Goodwill and then choose which of his current toys he wants to donate in order to keep the toy clutter from multiplying.  For our baby, things are even easier:  he wears simple clothes, hangs out near us all day, rides around in the sling whenever we go somewhere, and sleeps next to me at night.  He nurses whenever he’s hungry and is just starting to sample some of the food we eat at meal times (so far, he’s not impressed).  He needs almost nothing in terms of physical stuff.  We have a stash of cloth diapers, the hand-me-down clothes that his big brother wore, and a couple of slings.  He’s seven months old, and that’s pretty much all he needs so far.

Since I’m obviously convinced that simple is better and less is more when it comes to raising small children, I was thrilled when Rachel asked me to contribute a section to her new e-book, The Minimalist Mom’s Guide to Baby’s First Year.  I just finished reading the book, and it’s excellent.  For anyone who is planning to have children or already a new parent, this book is the antidote to the frenzied marketing that is directed at new and expectant parents.  It would also make a great gift for any new or expectant parent who is feeling stressed by the expenses and clutter that seem to go hand-in-hand with having a baby.

As an added bonus, Rachel is contributing $5 from each sale between now and November 12th to Care.  Care is raising money to build two new maternal health clinics in the Democratic Republic of Congo.  The time I spent as a Peace Corps Volunteer in Africa makes causes like this particularly close to my heart, and I’m grateful to Rachel for her commitment to helping with this worthy project.

I hope you enjoy The Minimalist Mom’s Guide to Baby’s First Year.  I hope it helps you slow down and enjoy your baby.  I hope it frees you from worrying about buying all the right stuff for your child.  I hope it reminds you that lying on the floor playing with your baby is far more important than scouring the internet looking for the best deals on baby leg warmers.  And I hope it inspires you to follow your own intuition about what your baby needs rather than looking to big box stores for answers.  Happy reading!

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