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Pictures Of Our Floors, Doors, and End Table

Several people have asked to see pictures of the floors we put in last spring.  We did our whole upstairs with click together pergo-style flooring, and we’ve been very happy with it.  The first picture here shows our hallway, with the floors we installed, and one of the bedroom doors that we replaced over the last few weeks.  The doors came from Home Depot as bare wood – we had to sand, stain, varnish, and cut all the holes and notches for hinges and doorknobs.  Quite a project, but we’re happy with how they turned out.  The mirror on the wall came from a thrift store last week, for five bucks.

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These pictures are the before and after of the end table that I found at the same thrift store, for four dollars.  I paid another three dollars for the drawer pull, since I decided the one that came with it was a tad bit dated.  We’re thrilled with how it turned out – all I did was sand off the old finish, sand down the wavy edges, and varnish the bare wood.  Our living room is looking much better.

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A Mini Makeover For Our Living Room

Yesterday I finished the coffee table I had been refinishing, and this morning we moved it into our living room.  I posted a picture of it already, but it looks even better inside than it did out in the driveway:

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I’m thrilled with how it turned out.  I love that it started as a dark, dingy, scratched piece of thrift store furniture that I got for $15, and turned out to be such a great addition to our living room.  We have a small end table between our two couches, and it’s just made of particle board with a fake wood veneer on it (you know the sort, where the strips of veneer start to peel off).  Now that I’ve seen how fantastic a piece of real wood furniture can be after a good sanding, I’m on a mission to find a replacement for the rickety end table.  I’m sure I’ll find a second hand treasure one of these days, and I’ll bring it back to life just like the table.  Much cheaper – and a lot more rewarding – than a trip to a big box furniture store.

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Our New Coffee Table

Last week, I came across a unique coffee table in our neighborhood thrift store.  It was solid – I can’t pick it up by myself – and really cool looking, but in need of some love.  It was obviously homemade, and constructed all from 2x4s, with industrial-looking bolts holding it together.  I love simple, solid wooded furniture, and this table jumped out at me.  We don’t have a coffee table in our living room.  We have an ottoman, but my husband has had it since he was in college, and there are some stains that I just can’t get out.  One of the things I liked about the new table was how solid it is.  You can sit on it, put your feet on it, use it as a table – it will take a beating and still be fine. 

Anyway, we bought it and brought it home on the roof of my car.  I borrowed an electric sander from my parents and spent the last couple afternoons out in the driveway sanding our new table.  It had been stained a dark color and varnished in a previous life.  It also had a lot of deep scratches, and we prefer light wood to dark, so I wanted to sand off all of the old finish.  Today I put four coats of varnish on it.  We already had the varnish left over from the doors we replaced earlier in the month, so all I spent on the table is $15 to buy it and the time it took me to refinish it (which I thoroughly enjoyed, so it doesn’t really count as work).  It didn’t occur to me to take a "before" picture until I was halfway finished sanding the top of the table.  But you can tell from the sides what it looked like when I found it. 

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No Need To Shop

Last Saturday, I spend the afternoon with one of my friends.  We went to lunch at a very tasty and inexpensive Mexican restaurant that we both love, and then she mentioned that she wanted to get a jump start on her Christmas shopping.  I’ve pretty much got all my holiday gift giving sorted out (without buying anything), but I’m always up for wandering around a store chatting with a girlfriend, so off we went.

We went to a shopping center that had a Ross, Marshalls, and Michaels all in a row.  My friend found four gifts, and I ended up with a packet of velcro from Michaels (so that I can make more diapers for my son) and a really cool woven cloth basket for $3 from Ross, which we’re using to corral our son’s toys in the living room (those wooden train cars I bought for him last week are not good if you step on them on a wood floor).

I used to love going to stores like Ross and Marshalls.  Great deals for sure, and I could always amuse myself in there, and end up with several new things.  This time, as I wandered around the kitchen section, I kept noticing that I didn’t need any of it.  New stainless steel measuring cups – nice, but I already have measuring cups.  They’re not a matching set, but they work just fine.  Pretty china bakeware – also nice, but the bakeware I have (again, not a matching set) works great.  It was the same in the clothing section.  I just pictured my very full closet, and didn’t even look at new stuff.  And housewares, a section that I used to love (pillows, towels, candles, rugs, etc), no longer holds any draw at all.  We have everything we need as far as possessions go.  Of course we do still buy things, but for the most part they’re wants, not needs.  I know we’ll need things for our son as he gets bigger, but my husband and I could get along for a good long while with just the stuff we already have.  That’s a very freeing realization.  It makes a trip around a store like Ross seem more like a sightseeing adventure rather than a shopping excursion.

Pictures Of The Diapers

By popular demand (n = 3) I took pictures of the diapers I made yesterday.  The Cat in the Hat one has the soaker layer sewn into the middle of it, like the ones we made last spring.  The Wyoming diaper (my husband went to school there; that diaper is made of a pair of his old pajamas that he wasn’t wearing anymore) is a pocket diaper, with just an inner and outer layer sewn together, and a few inches left open at the front.  I made a soaker insert from old t-shirts and flannel, and it just slips in between the two layers of the diaper.  Then when we change him, we’ll just pull the soaker insert out and put it in the diaper pail separately.  I washed the diapers last night and the pocket diaper is already nearly dry (it normally takes about two days for most of my diapers to dry).  So I think I’ll be making all of my diapers this way from now on.

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My Thoughts On Cars

I got this email from a reader yesterday:

“My parents are driving me insane. They want me to buy a new car. Or, if I won’t, they will buy one for me. It’s getting ridiculous. My car is fine. It’s paid off. It’s a subaru with 185,000 miles. But with a subaru, it could seriously last another 100k. Their argument is safety. Mine is frugality. I’m paying off debt, I have no intention of getting a car loan. And absolutely don’t want to be in the situation where I owe my parents, or where they give me such an expensive gift. (and I’m 36) Plus, I think it’s ‘greener’ to continue to use my current car. I could be wrong, but it gets decent gas milage. It isn’t low emissions or anything, but if I don’t buy one, in my mind, it’s one less car on the planet. Anyways, I don’t feel particularly unsafe, although there is only one airbag. I’m just wondering about your thoughts on all of this and would be interested in reading a post about it. You say you drive used cars, did you buy them used? Obviously one day I’ll have to purchase a car, what would you recommend (as far as new v. used v. ‘green’ etc).”

I’ve written a lot about my car. It’s a 1991 Civic wagon that my husband and I bought in 2003 for $2300 cash. It has about 214,000 miles on it. (my husband drives a 1990 Audi with 110,000 miles on it). Both of our cars are still going strong. I am on a mission to drive as little as possible. I walk or bike anywhere within five miles of our home. My yoga class and the bank are both four miles from our house, and I bike to each of them every week. The grocery store, post office, thrift store, and library are all about a mile away, and I would never dream of driving to any of them. Since we both work at home, we often go several days without taking either car out of the garage.

Here’s our long-term plan: We’ll keep both of our cars until one of them dies and/or needs very expensive repairs (we’ll do things like spark plug wires and brake pads, but not an engine overhaul). At that point, we’ll get rid of the dead car and keep the other one. We’ll keep that car until it no longer drives either, at which point we’ll go looking for a new-to-us car. We will never buy a new car, under any circumstances. In fact, I can’t see us ever buying a car less than five years old. We’re currently saving $200/month in an online savings account earmarked for a new car. We just started this summer, so we only have $600 in the account right now. But it should take a good long while before both of our cars bite the dust, and by then we should have enough money for a decent used car. (It’s a myth that you have to spend a fortune to get a good used car. We only paid $2300 for my car, and it’s already lasted us more than five years). So our plan is to eventually be a one car family. But for now, with cars that are 17 and 18 years old, it doesn’t make sense to get rid of one, since we don’t know which one will end up lasting longer – we could get rid of one and then the other one could die next week. It only costs us about $350/year to register/emission test/insure each vehicle, so we’ll keep them both around until they don’t drive anymore.

I also agree that it’s greener to keep your current car than to go buy a new one – but it depends on your circumstances. For me, since I drive so little, it’s a no brainer that keeping my current car is the greener choice. And it helps that my Civic gets nearly 30 miles to the gallon. It would be a different story if you drive a truck that gets 12 mpg and you put 20,000 miles on it every year.

But what about the safety issue? Breaking down is a possibility with any car, regardless of how old it is. Back in the bad old days, I worked at a car rental company. All of our cars were less than three years old, and the majority of our fleet was always less than a year old. And there were plenty of breakdowns. A new car is no guarantee that you won’t be left stranded on the side of the road. But most of us have cell phones these days, and that’s what they’re there for.

Speaking of cell phones, let’s look at the other safety issue – accidents. It’s true that newer cars have better built-in safety technology, and that is the only argument I would ever make in favor of a new car (and possibly the warranty, if you go with a company that offers 100,000 mile warranties). If cars were free, I would drive one that had a great safety rating and great fuel efficiency. But cars aren’t free. So I choose to continue driving my Civic (which doesn’t have any airbags at all). But I wonder how many of the people I see on the interstate driving 80 mph, talking on the phone, 15 feet behind the car in front of them, bought their new car because of the safety features? I’m guessing a lot of them would give that as a reason, but their behavior indicates that they really aren’t that concerned about safety at all. A safe car isn’t going to keep you from being in an accident – it’ll just help protect you once the accident occurs. In the winter, when our mountain highways are covered in ice and snow, I invariably see SUVs flying past everyone in the fast lane – no doubt counting on their four wheel drive to let them drive 55 mph on ice. So instead of going into debt (to the bank or to your parents) to buy a fancy new car, here are my ideas for enhancing our safety on the road, which I think work a lot better than having 25 airbags in the car:

  • Driving is not a multi-tasking sport. Don’t talk on your phone (and people who text while they’re driving shouldn’t have licenses), don’t eat, don’t shave, don’t put on make up, don’t put in a new cd, etc. Just drive. With both hands on the wheel and both eyes on the road.
  • Drive 65 mph on the interstate. You’ll save gas, and you’ll be able to just stay in the right hand lane most of the time (frequently changing lanes increases your chances of an accident)
  • stay far back from the car in front of you. If someone ducks into the space in front of you, slow down. You’ll get fewer rocks in your windshield, and reduce your chances of an accident.
  • Who cares if someone cuts you off, doesn’t let you in, doesn’t use their blinker, honks at you, etc. Just chill out. we’ll all get there eventually.

I honestly think that these things (combined with driving as little as possible) matter more than the safety features in a car.

That’s my two cents on cars. We’ll have to wait and see how much money we have in our car fund by the time both of our vehicles go to car heaven. That will determine what we end up with as our next car. The number one issue for us will be fuel economy, but we’ll also be looking at safety, maintenance issues, and cargo space. I’m hoping that we won’t be car shopping for several more years though, and we’re careful about staying on top of routine maintenance to keep our cars going as long as possible.

When Did Watches Get This Complicated?

The baby is asleep and I should be catching up on work right now, but instead I just took a detour over to Frugal Dad’s website, and came across this article about a Rolex versus a Timex.  Reading the article and the comments is a fascinating look into the viewpoints of a wide variety of people from various walks of life.  I’m guessing that most of the readers we frugal bloggers have are not multi-millionaires, so it makes sense that most of the comments went something along the lines of “what a waste of money a Rolex is.”  But there were several people who didn’t see it that way at all, and one person who pointed out that for someone who earns $2.5 million a year (and gives $700K to charity), a Rolex is chump change.  Very true.

If you’re a regular reader on my site, I’m sure you know where I stand on this issue.  I’m one hundred percent in agreement with Frugal Dad when he says “Even if I had an extra $27k I could think of a hundred charities I would rather support, or dozens of strangers I could help, rather than spending that kind of money on a watch.” I sold my engagement ring and bought a ring with a man-made diamond, so a Rolex is obviously something that I would never want in a million years.  But I find it fascinating that so many people obviously do like things like Rolex watches, Fendi bags, Christian Leboutin heels, and Lamborghinis.

There are so many ways to look at things like this.  There’s the time factor that Frugal Dad pointed out – which is a very good point.  But there’s also the idea of “voting with your dollars.”  Every time we spend money on something, we’re supporting a particular industry, company, or person.  For example, when I bought my man-made diamond ring, I was supporting highly skilled lab workers in the US and gold mines in Canada, rather than diamond and gold mining cartels in Africa with wage and labor standards that are a bit questionable.  (of course we did buy a standard ring the first time around, but you live and learn).  When I shop at thrift stores, I’m supporting all sorts of charitable programs, giving things a second life (and keeping them out of landfills) and eliminating the need for new goods, many of which are produced in sweatshops in developing countries.  When I buy organic food, I’m supporting a way of life and agriculture that I feel is crucially important for the health of our planet and ourselves.  The list goes on…

We do have a house.  It’s a lot more house than the vast majority of people in the world have – I realize that.  And we have two cars, although they were both made back when MC Hammer was super cool, so I think we get points for being non-materialistic when it comes to our rides.  We have a TV that my husband bought in about 1995.  We have a Nintendo 64 with Mario Karts.  We have four bicycles (gulp! – but we did buy all of them used) and two unicycles.  There’s not really anything that we need that we don’t have.  One of the comments on Frugal Dad’s post talked about how you can’t be high and mighty about materialism unless you’re living in a mud hut with a grass roof and no running water (incidentally, during the two years I lived in Africa, I had no electricity, no running water, and lived in a mud-brick house).  This is a very good point, and serves as a good reminder to those of us who do sometimes feel a bit smug about our non-spendy ways.  Most of us here in the US are still doing pretty darn well.  The very fact that we can spend time debating the merits of various watches demonstrates that quite well.  And just for the record, I have a Timex.  Although ever since my son was born, I haven’t been wearing a watch at all.

Old Cars – Cheaper all Around

We got our car registration renewal notices in the mail today.  $27.32 for my car, and $28.12 for my husband’s.  Yet another reason we love our old cars.  Makes it a lot easier to fill the gas tank when the registration isn’t hundreds of dollars.

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99 Cent Mondays

My parents go thrift store shopping every Monday.  It’s mostly a hobby for them; they enjoy the scavenger hunt that ensues in a thrift store.  And Savers stores – in our state anyway – have 99 cent sales every Monday.  Items with particular color tags are 99 cents on Monday.  So the goal is to see what they can find with that color tag.  My father likes to work on old clocks, and has found several treasures (his most recent is an old-fashioned alarm clock made of mahogany and brass).  My mother likes pretty china, and has found several complete sets of Pfaltzgraff and Lenox that retail for hundreds of dollars.  Yesterday they got a walnut table and matching china cabinet for 99 cents each.  They found my sister a couch for 99 cents a few months ago.  I think they’ve furnished half a house for about $20 over the last six months or so.  They’re remodeling two houses at the moment, so they have a place to store all the stuff they find, and they’ll have plenty of furniture for the houses once they’re remodeled.

One of the clocks my father found is a beautiful pendulum clock, but it was missing its pendulum.  Ever resourceful, he bought it anyway and made a pendulum for it.  He used a piece of metal out of the back of an old computer as the part that hangs down, and then used a flat jar lid (the kind that fits into a canning jar style ring) as the bob on the pendulum.  It looks fantastic, and when we complimented him on how good it looked, he gave it to us!!  He was planning to use some gold paint on the jar lid, but I told him I like it the way it is.  It has a “use by” date stamped on it, so if you look closely you can tell that it’s a lid – I love it!!  You can’t cover up that sort of creativity.  So now we have a beautiful clock in our living room, thanks to my parents’ thrift store outings and my dad’s creativity.

I’m not sure if all the Savers stores around the country have the 99 cent Mondays – all the ones in our state do.  If you live near a Savers, check it out and see what you can find for a buck.

More Frugal Homemade Baby Stuff

We had a very productive weekend. On Saturday we started painting our house. We decided to paint it the same color it already was, which is making the whole process easier. We bought a five gallon bucket of paint ($106) and a couple paint brushes, and we had caulk left over from our kitchen remodel. We will probably need to buy one more tube of caulk, and maybe two more gallons of paint. We’ll also need a couple gallons of trim paint. All told, the whole project is looking like it will be less than $250, which is very good news.

On Sunday we spent most of the day with my parents, and spent the evening with my brother and sister and their friends. My mother and I did lots of sewing yesterday. We made a Maya Wrap sling, using the directions on this site. It worked great and only took us about an hour (maybe a little more because of all the breaks we had to take to watch the baby learning to smile!) I ordered the rings from slingrings.com ($4) and used a flannel sheet that I had originally bought to make into diapers. Those wraps sell for about $50 – $60 online, and ours cost about $6. In the evening we went to an outdoor concert with my siblings, and then to a bar to watch the b-ball game, and our little munchkin was snug as a bug the whole time. I nursed him three times in the sling, and it was amazingly convenient. I was even able to nurse him standing up, with the sling supporting his weight. I’m thrilled with how easy it was to make, and how great it works.

Once we finished the sling, I started altering diapers. We made 24 diapers a couple months ago, but our little guy is growing so fast that they were starting to be a hard to velcro shut in the front. So I added flaps to the back of the diaper and moved the velcro to the flaps. Now when we put the diapers on him, the flaps wrap around the front – with lots of room to grow, lesson learned! – and velcro easily to the front of the diaper. I didn’t have time to alter all of the diapers, but I’m going to try to find a used sewing machine on craigs list or at a thrift store so that I can continue the project without always having to hijack my mother’s sewing machine.

We also made a pair of wool diaper cover pants, which are super cute. I made them pretty much by myself, which is a bigsweater-pants accomplishment for my non-sewing self. I used this site that shows how to make pants out of an old sweater (thanks for the link Michelle!). The pants took about 30 minutes to make, and they work great. Last night he wore them to bed, and although I did change his diaper a couple times during the night, he didn’t leak at all. I have a whole bag of old wool sweaters that a friend gave me. She shrunk them and was using them to make wool pants for her son several years ago, but had some leftovers and passed them on to me. So I’ll be able to make several more diaper covers once I get a sewing machine. I made them with a drawstring in the waist instead of elastic, so that they’ll fit him for longer. For now I have to turn up the cuffs at the ankles, but as he gets taller I’ll just leave them down. These pants should fit for quite a while. I love how easy they were to make, and they’re just so darn cute!